Keep Moving on, is what all say.....

Today my Cousin Expired, morning I was very happy and excited about some new purchases, some fun talks, with Hubby dear and many more things, and suddenly this news came which started making me think.............

Is it worth keeping away from people, completely, is it good to keep in touch in some way, may be messages, social networking sites, calls, emails, or it should be like, people who need you will call you and talk to you, but for the rest you need not be worried. Life goes on at all ends, our life and the other peoples lives too, may it be relatives, friends and also extended family, sometimes your own family too, when the children grow up and start staying outside.

One thing I know giving space is important to all, let them be kind of, but again to what extent one should be involved is a question because today when I lost my cousin then I felt the last time I spoke to him and met him was in May 2012 when another cousin's wife expired. Time moves with its pace, and we too keep moving forward, is it essential to look back once in a while to the people in the family and close friends to simply say a Hello How are you, if not a long talk, I don't know, but feeling very low today, that why do we all get so busy in our lives that we do not have time to look at other people, who are far and also who are near sometimes.

Priorities is the name we give to all that we love to do, and consider the other things not so important, I only know one thing which I noticed in my life, though not all the people react that way, but when I would call anyone on their birthday or anniversary, once in while, people would always feel great about it, and appreciate the call made and occasion remembered.

off late reduced all of it, got more busy in life and then I also realized that probably the others who do not remember are already busy, and have different priorities, what should one do ????? Stop calling people who don't call you or still be in touch because it makes you feel good or make a pact kind of to yourself that if someone never calls me even after I made several calls then I need to stop.

I guess the third option seems fine, Well, I wish I had more views on this from different people and so that we can come to a conclusion, as to what is the correct way of being in touch.

Signing off, coz my mind is revolving at the same point again and again and not finding any correct answer.............