Silence is Golden at times ;-)

Hi folks, I have no relation with silence generally, I am usually the ever talkative and I can go on and on and on for hours together with friends while I get a chance to, and many a people who know me tell me Bandana Grow up :))))))))

Well growing up and being mature is very important, I know, but keeping the child alive in you is equally important, is what I feel, many people differ in opinion, but how does that make a difference to me, if it would have, then people would stop telling me to grow up......lol....

How much fun it is when you enjoy the little moments, like today me, my son and my daughter we all went out for dinner, ate well, then came back home and after an hour again went for a juice almost close to mid night, searching for open shops and available options, empty roads, 3 of us on a two wheeler and no if's and but's. I love to spend such moments with children and thankfully I get opportunities too, my children also enjoy the ride, though they are grown up and more mature than me sometimes............

Today I was after a very stressful mind for last few days, due to various reasons, simply sitting and enjoying the light moments, then added a few songs to my playlist which I am very fond of and just hearing songs and spending time with myself here, feels so good to be silent and at peace with myself.

My friend told me and we often hear, that change what you cannot accept and accept what you cannot change, its not easy I know, but sometimes we forget to differentiate between Self respect and Ego. Today I read somewhere some nice lines written by a person who believes in spreading happiness that
Happiness blooms in the presence of self respect and the absence of Ego :-)
Love yourself and Love everyone around you :-)
Love everyone in the whole world :-)
Know that your own life is of Infinite importance, as is every other life :-)

I often refer to his writings and I feel good to read them because I relate to them and we all love to read and write and also talk about the things we love to do or we dream to do. I am loving this moment where I am not doing anything thinking that what would be the reaction of people, or do they think I am good, do they think I am bad, do they think I am mad......lol....
well most of the times we are in stress because we think more about what others are thinking, if someone does not like me can I change their thoughts, No I cannot, no matter how hard I try and if someone loves me, again I cannot change that too so I just figured out that It actually makes no difference and I should not get affected by what others think about me.

This is the first rule to be at peace with yourself and the second do not judge others, we can never exchange lives with anyone, then do we have the right to judge anyone. Its good to appreciate, do that as and when you can but its very inhuman to discourage and criticize others.

I am blessed to have friends and family who stand by me without judging me for anything whatsoever I say or do and I trust I am also the same way with them and that is why those relations are all alive and do not fade away or die despite the distances in miles and also differences in thoughts. The only true religion which is understood by all human beings on earth is unconditional love :-)

How much is the comfort when someone tells you " I love you just the way you are " and when you say the same to someone.

The grown ups need to learn that trait from little children and I love to accept the fact that I learn a lot from them, attaching a cute snap of a little lovely baby of a friend and these innocent smiles teach us a lot.

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Signing out with a wish that God bless all of us with the power of loving unconditionally and Keep Smiling :-)

I met life one day and....................

Good Morning is what I say to myself and all my friends and family everyday through a sms and today while writing I just started with these words.....

I met life one day and asked: Why do you keep changing your mood so often, You are never the same?
She replied: I change my mood as per your mood :-)

Well with this note I say Good Morning to all who are reading this blog too, Isn't this so true,Have you ever noticed, that there is nothing called the perfect life to any human being on earth and heaven too, for that matter, situations keep changing, every life is very eventful, but what is it that makes all the difference ???

Yes of course it is your attitude towards life and attitude also keeps changing as per our moods and so does Life. When we smile, Life smiles back. When we cry, Life cries for us and with us. When we think that Life is beautiful, it actually is. When we get annoyed on every little and big thing happening, Life also does the same. When we hate life and people around, Life also hates us. When we Love Life and people around, Life also loves us.

Many a times we keep thinking why me, why does this happen to me always.

I am not an exception, I also think this way when I am very low, but then immediately if I switch off my low mood and smile, I don't feel that pain, I feel so what if its me over and over again, because I always loved challenges and that is what Life is giving me, then why am I complaining, is there any need to complain or criticize or even regret and repent. And I say a Big NO, I say to myself Life is beautiful and it always proves to me that YES I AM :-)

I know its easier said than done, but the best way to change your mood is to share, share the good, share the bad, share all you feel with someone you love or someone who loves you and you will see that it is not all that hard to keep smiling and when you do that, just for a minute take out time and look into the mirror, trust me you would look more beautiful than ever if you are a Girl and if you are a Guy then more handsome than ever. One never grows old or becomes dull by looks or age, it only happens by our moods and attitude towards the day to day happenings of life.

Here there might be someone who says, that may be you are lucky enough you have people around you who love you, I do not have anyone, but this is a total myth. All of us have someone or the other who loves us and whom we love, its just that we keep ourself closed.

Open your heart and smile, it will reflect on your face, people come, people go, meeting and departing is a part of life. One person may be happy with you today and tomorrow he may be angry, but here I want to say, irrespective of who is happy with you, and who is not, it is more important that YOU BE HAPPY YOURSELF.

Love yourself, Believe in yourself and Love others and Believe in others too.

Take time to Think, it is the source of power.
Take time to Read, it is the foundation of wisdom.
Take time to Play, it is the secret of staying young.
Take time to be Quiet, it is the opportunity to seek God.
Take time to be Aware, it is the opportunity to help others.
Take time to Love and Be loved, it is God's greatest gift.
Take time to Laugh, it is the music of the soul.
Take time to be Friendly, it is the road to happiness.
Take time to Dream, it is what the future is made of.
Take time to Pray, it is the greatest power on earth.

Life tells you with open arms that " Walk from the gates of "YOU", Stride towards the doors of "ME", Knock not, Just enter, Share your secrets, See dreams, Open your heart for me and I will be your friend forever. "

And you will then experience what I have and you will tell life
" Friend with you by my side, everything seems to be just perfectly right. "

Keep Loving Life and it will Never stop loving you and Keep smiling :-)
Hey I saw you smiling all along the conversation above, just keep it on.
Thank you to God and the wonderful people who are or have been a part of my life, because each one of them gives me many reasons to smile.
I am signing out for the day, attached a snap of Adesh and Srijan smiling together and I love to see all of them smiling :)))))
Have a nice day :-)