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How strange anything looks when there is no title to it, like a person without a name, one of my trainers told me the most favorite word of a human being is a person's name. I believed in it too, taught my students during sessions that it is important to remember names and calling people by the name makes a difference in the conversation.

Today is a special day, not because it is some good occasion or some festival etc.. it is a day when I decided to take out a few days from life and look into myself without the influence of others. Deactivated all social networking sites and accounts and thought How does life feel like without these things which have become compulsory kind of, in today's date, though in my own circle there are people who are totally out of Facebook, Twitter, Linked in etc.. and even if they are in, they are inactive. I used to tell them all, that what stops you from being connected to the world that way, it is a good medium to express and share your views. Strange that I myself decided to remove my name from all of these to venture into a new journey, the journey of the unknown, I do not know so far how long I can keep away, because people believe and I too that I am a peoples person and cannot keep away from people, this is a test I am taking, for myself, I may pass, I may fail, pass/ fail was never an issue in my life, I would be equally happy in both during exams, though I never failed,,,,I was an average student and in work and other aspects too, as per the world parameters, I am average.

Well that is not a concern, I am happy being the way I am. Sharing here that for a person who is very expressive it is difficult to be quiet and for a person who is very quiet it is difficult to understand the talkativeness, though extreme of anything is bad, but learning the balance is a challenge of life.

When I say bad, again, bad and good are relative terms. but excess and little are not, we can learn not to do things in excess and not to do things too little. In this run of not over doing things, I have started this exercise, shall share here on my blog my everyday experiences, not for anybody to read, not for anybody to appreciate, not for anybody to follow, simply for satisfying my need to express and my want to share, instead of sharing it with outsiders, I am sharing it with myself, people who are acquainted with me, and are comfortable with my sharing can continue to read my posts everyday, rest do not need it of course, goes without saying. That's why no more sharing with people who do not need it and no more caring about their views either.

I am here to simply write my heart out, oh!! yeah I can maintain a diary but I am fond of speaking out loud and clear and it gives me happiness and sometimes also removes unwanted people from my life and keeps the honest relationships alive.

It is good to be honest to others, and even better to be honest to yourself, rather than others, Life is a lot more easier and even if it is not, the strange thing is that the so called people who advice me so many things, also do not have an easy life, so its okay to not have an easy or a perfect life and perfect relationships in life. I wanna join the positive and the negative aspects and make it neutral. ZERO, Nothing, Blank, Empty, etc..... are no value words, but I guess in life if one can achieve this state, its the best thing that can happen to a human being. I am talking about the ordinary human being the common man, like me, not the highly intellectual people or the saints, the people who have lived extra ordinary lives, No, I am not one among them.

signing off for the day.............