" The World is full of Artificial People"
I have often heard people saying this, sometimes even my dear ones and many others who feel so......say this, Is it true ? Is it false ? Is it partially true or false ????
We keep thinking and the answers to the question vary from person to person, but very recently I made a simple observation of different people and noticed that most of the people who have complained of too much artificiality are those who at some point of time or the other never appreciated the genuine. They admired those artificial people or so called relationships so highly that they would have ignored the genuine.
It is a very common phenomenon, when we receive praise, whether true or superficial or flattery we feel very good, and in that feel good factor, if someone comes and reminds us or warns us that this good feeling is not going to last from their opinion (as a third party observer they can see what we cannot at that moment), we tend to ignore those advises and think that the other person is simply preaching. With time as it has to, the artificial aura disappears and reality or facts sometimes shock us and sometimes surprise us. We take no time to think, where we went wrong and we declare that the world is full of artificial people and relationships.
Have you ever noticed the people with a positive attitude and non critical behavior do not complain this way, because they judge only themselves in any given situation and correct themselves, learn from their mistakes, what to do and what not to do and move ahead in life with no regrets and no criticism. They always live life with an attitude of gratitude.
The fact is that if you are genuine and you appreciate the genuine people in your life, be it your family, your friends or your colleagues then your world will never be full of artificial people. It is only what and whom you want in your life, is what you get. If you love to be flattered, you attract flatterers, If you love to be taught, you attract teachers, If you love to be loved, you attract lovers, if you love to be a giver, you attract receivers, if you love to be a leader, you attract followers, if you love to be honest, you attract honest people and the other way round too, if you are negative you attract negativity, You need to know to make the right choice and recognize the qualities you look forward to in the people you have around you.
Life and people can never be perfect, its good with imperfections, rather than complaining, its always better to look for what we want and go in search of that, start walking on the path which can take us to our destination. And during the journey, do not judge anyone and everyone you come across, you do not know what their journey has been all about and how they have become what they are or what they have gone through to be where they are, instead look out for the quality you want to see in them, and if you don't find it, move on without giving names to people, either take them along if you find them compatible otherwise let them be, just let them be with no certifications issued.
The world is full of beautiful people and if yours is not, then you need to " Judge only yourself ", and understand what changes you need to make for yourself and others around you.
Signing out for the day, Have a nice day n Keep smiling :-)
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