Keep Moving on, is what all say.....

Today my Cousin Expired, morning I was very happy and excited about some new purchases, some fun talks, with Hubby dear and many more things, and suddenly this news came which started making me think.............

Is it worth keeping away from people, completely, is it good to keep in touch in some way, may be messages, social networking sites, calls, emails, or it should be like, people who need you will call you and talk to you, but for the rest you need not be worried. Life goes on at all ends, our life and the other peoples lives too, may it be relatives, friends and also extended family, sometimes your own family too, when the children grow up and start staying outside.

One thing I know giving space is important to all, let them be kind of, but again to what extent one should be involved is a question because today when I lost my cousin then I felt the last time I spoke to him and met him was in May 2012 when another cousin's wife expired. Time moves with its pace, and we too keep moving forward, is it essential to look back once in a while to the people in the family and close friends to simply say a Hello How are you, if not a long talk, I don't know, but feeling very low today, that why do we all get so busy in our lives that we do not have time to look at other people, who are far and also who are near sometimes.

Priorities is the name we give to all that we love to do, and consider the other things not so important, I only know one thing which I noticed in my life, though not all the people react that way, but when I would call anyone on their birthday or anniversary, once in while, people would always feel great about it, and appreciate the call made and occasion remembered.

off late reduced all of it, got more busy in life and then I also realized that probably the others who do not remember are already busy, and have different priorities, what should one do ????? Stop calling people who don't call you or still be in touch because it makes you feel good or make a pact kind of to yourself that if someone never calls me even after I made several calls then I need to stop.

I guess the third option seems fine, Well, I wish I had more views on this from different people and so that we can come to a conclusion, as to what is the correct way of being in touch.

Signing off, coz my mind is revolving at the same point again and again and not finding any correct answer.............

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How strange anything looks when there is no title to it, like a person without a name, one of my trainers told me the most favorite word of a human being is a person's name. I believed in it too, taught my students during sessions that it is important to remember names and calling people by the name makes a difference in the conversation.

Today is a special day, not because it is some good occasion or some festival etc.. it is a day when I decided to take out a few days from life and look into myself without the influence of others. Deactivated all social networking sites and accounts and thought How does life feel like without these things which have become compulsory kind of, in today's date, though in my own circle there are people who are totally out of Facebook, Twitter, Linked in etc.. and even if they are in, they are inactive. I used to tell them all, that what stops you from being connected to the world that way, it is a good medium to express and share your views. Strange that I myself decided to remove my name from all of these to venture into a new journey, the journey of the unknown, I do not know so far how long I can keep away, because people believe and I too that I am a peoples person and cannot keep away from people, this is a test I am taking, for myself, I may pass, I may fail, pass/ fail was never an issue in my life, I would be equally happy in both during exams, though I never failed,,,,I was an average student and in work and other aspects too, as per the world parameters, I am average.

Well that is not a concern, I am happy being the way I am. Sharing here that for a person who is very expressive it is difficult to be quiet and for a person who is very quiet it is difficult to understand the talkativeness, though extreme of anything is bad, but learning the balance is a challenge of life.

When I say bad, again, bad and good are relative terms. but excess and little are not, we can learn not to do things in excess and not to do things too little. In this run of not over doing things, I have started this exercise, shall share here on my blog my everyday experiences, not for anybody to read, not for anybody to appreciate, not for anybody to follow, simply for satisfying my need to express and my want to share, instead of sharing it with outsiders, I am sharing it with myself, people who are acquainted with me, and are comfortable with my sharing can continue to read my posts everyday, rest do not need it of course, goes without saying. That's why no more sharing with people who do not need it and no more caring about their views either.

I am here to simply write my heart out, oh!! yeah I can maintain a diary but I am fond of speaking out loud and clear and it gives me happiness and sometimes also removes unwanted people from my life and keeps the honest relationships alive.

It is good to be honest to others, and even better to be honest to yourself, rather than others, Life is a lot more easier and even if it is not, the strange thing is that the so called people who advice me so many things, also do not have an easy life, so its okay to not have an easy or a perfect life and perfect relationships in life. I wanna join the positive and the negative aspects and make it neutral. ZERO, Nothing, Blank, Empty, etc..... are no value words, but I guess in life if one can achieve this state, its the best thing that can happen to a human being. I am talking about the ordinary human being the common man, like me, not the highly intellectual people or the saints, the people who have lived extra ordinary lives, No, I am not one among them.

signing off for the day.............