Today I am not in my usual high spirits, because, it is weekend time, I am at work place, sitting as usual, but still I was wondering, how horrible the world would be if we never had friends and family to spend our good times and bad ones with.
Usually we never acknowledge our family members and friends for the kind of fulfillment they bring to our life. Today I am alone, at work, all family members are out, not that life stops, not that there is nothing else to do, not that, I am crying all day, its simply that when you do not have your loved ones close to you, everything seems a little less than usual. A little incomplete, a little slow........
It's good to stay in touch with friends on Phone calls, its nice to view updates on Facebook, its good to check out old snaps and revisit good old memories, but then everything would come to a stand still, if we had no one to share all this with. How Boring and non happening work and home would be, without the people in it.
Just take out some time, look at life, Give a hug to your partner and children, Say " I love you". Are we doing that everyday, if yes I am sure Life is beautiful at your end, but where it is not done, there is love, not that there is no Love and affection, but without expression, it is only a feeling which is suppressed and it does not reach the other.
Expression may not be in words always, it could be a smile, a hug, holding hands, looking into the eyes, When dull simply doing something funny to bring back that smile, or simply sitting quietly with each other, sharing a song, watching a movie together, going on a drive, exercising together, Dancing together, Swimming together, cooking together, anything and everything done Together and all these things are not applicable only for husband and wife or lovers, it is for Parents and children, friends, Loved ones, anyone whom you love, or who loves you and with whom Life feels better.
Along with expression of Love, Freedom is also a major part of being together, we need to know when to leave each other alone and give them the space when they need it. Too much of anything is bad, which holds true for Love and freedom both, but the decision is absolutely the other person's when they want to left alone and when they want to be together, only when you realize this, you know the true meaning of Understanding each other. People say relationships are based on trust, but I have observed that more than trust, Understanding plays a major role. Trust develops gradually when we understand each other better.
Love makes Life beautiful, and Love is never just physical touch, it is so many things we do for each other, just to see a smile on the other's face, or to let them know that " I am there and I shall always be there for you :)"
I do a lot of it and so even one day without all these seems so empty to me, My children and my loved ones, they make life beautiful for me, simply by being in it and enjoying and sharing every expression of Love in words, gestures and actions.
Missing you all specially Adesh, Avani and Srijan. Without you all Life is so meaningless and so empty. I love you. Thank you God for giving me such beautiful people to be called as FAMILY.
Missing all of YOU but more thankful that I have YOU & I belong to YOU :)
Signing off for the day :)
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loved ur article... it really gives us as insight to look at those amazing gifts which we already have in our life...
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