Silence is Golden at times ;-)

Hi folks, I have no relation with silence generally, I am usually the ever talkative and I can go on and on and on for hours together with friends while I get a chance to, and many a people who know me tell me Bandana Grow up :))))))))

Well growing up and being mature is very important, I know, but keeping the child alive in you is equally important, is what I feel, many people differ in opinion, but how does that make a difference to me, if it would have, then people would stop telling me to grow up......lol....

How much fun it is when you enjoy the little moments, like today me, my son and my daughter we all went out for dinner, ate well, then came back home and after an hour again went for a juice almost close to mid night, searching for open shops and available options, empty roads, 3 of us on a two wheeler and no if's and but's. I love to spend such moments with children and thankfully I get opportunities too, my children also enjoy the ride, though they are grown up and more mature than me sometimes............

Today I was after a very stressful mind for last few days, due to various reasons, simply sitting and enjoying the light moments, then added a few songs to my playlist which I am very fond of and just hearing songs and spending time with myself here, feels so good to be silent and at peace with myself.

My friend told me and we often hear, that change what you cannot accept and accept what you cannot change, its not easy I know, but sometimes we forget to differentiate between Self respect and Ego. Today I read somewhere some nice lines written by a person who believes in spreading happiness that
Happiness blooms in the presence of self respect and the absence of Ego :-)
Love yourself and Love everyone around you :-)
Love everyone in the whole world :-)
Know that your own life is of Infinite importance, as is every other life :-)

I often refer to his writings and I feel good to read them because I relate to them and we all love to read and write and also talk about the things we love to do or we dream to do. I am loving this moment where I am not doing anything thinking that what would be the reaction of people, or do they think I am good, do they think I am bad, do they think I am mad......lol....
well most of the times we are in stress because we think more about what others are thinking, if someone does not like me can I change their thoughts, No I cannot, no matter how hard I try and if someone loves me, again I cannot change that too so I just figured out that It actually makes no difference and I should not get affected by what others think about me.

This is the first rule to be at peace with yourself and the second do not judge others, we can never exchange lives with anyone, then do we have the right to judge anyone. Its good to appreciate, do that as and when you can but its very inhuman to discourage and criticize others.

I am blessed to have friends and family who stand by me without judging me for anything whatsoever I say or do and I trust I am also the same way with them and that is why those relations are all alive and do not fade away or die despite the distances in miles and also differences in thoughts. The only true religion which is understood by all human beings on earth is unconditional love :-)

How much is the comfort when someone tells you " I love you just the way you are " and when you say the same to someone.

The grown ups need to learn that trait from little children and I love to accept the fact that I learn a lot from them, attaching a cute snap of a little lovely baby of a friend and these innocent smiles teach us a lot.

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Signing out with a wish that God bless all of us with the power of loving unconditionally and Keep Smiling :-)

I met life one day and....................

Good Morning is what I say to myself and all my friends and family everyday through a sms and today while writing I just started with these words.....

I met life one day and asked: Why do you keep changing your mood so often, You are never the same?
She replied: I change my mood as per your mood :-)

Well with this note I say Good Morning to all who are reading this blog too, Isn't this so true,Have you ever noticed, that there is nothing called the perfect life to any human being on earth and heaven too, for that matter, situations keep changing, every life is very eventful, but what is it that makes all the difference ???

Yes of course it is your attitude towards life and attitude also keeps changing as per our moods and so does Life. When we smile, Life smiles back. When we cry, Life cries for us and with us. When we think that Life is beautiful, it actually is. When we get annoyed on every little and big thing happening, Life also does the same. When we hate life and people around, Life also hates us. When we Love Life and people around, Life also loves us.

Many a times we keep thinking why me, why does this happen to me always.

I am not an exception, I also think this way when I am very low, but then immediately if I switch off my low mood and smile, I don't feel that pain, I feel so what if its me over and over again, because I always loved challenges and that is what Life is giving me, then why am I complaining, is there any need to complain or criticize or even regret and repent. And I say a Big NO, I say to myself Life is beautiful and it always proves to me that YES I AM :-)

I know its easier said than done, but the best way to change your mood is to share, share the good, share the bad, share all you feel with someone you love or someone who loves you and you will see that it is not all that hard to keep smiling and when you do that, just for a minute take out time and look into the mirror, trust me you would look more beautiful than ever if you are a Girl and if you are a Guy then more handsome than ever. One never grows old or becomes dull by looks or age, it only happens by our moods and attitude towards the day to day happenings of life.

Here there might be someone who says, that may be you are lucky enough you have people around you who love you, I do not have anyone, but this is a total myth. All of us have someone or the other who loves us and whom we love, its just that we keep ourself closed.

Open your heart and smile, it will reflect on your face, people come, people go, meeting and departing is a part of life. One person may be happy with you today and tomorrow he may be angry, but here I want to say, irrespective of who is happy with you, and who is not, it is more important that YOU BE HAPPY YOURSELF.

Love yourself, Believe in yourself and Love others and Believe in others too.

Take time to Think, it is the source of power.
Take time to Read, it is the foundation of wisdom.
Take time to Play, it is the secret of staying young.
Take time to be Quiet, it is the opportunity to seek God.
Take time to be Aware, it is the opportunity to help others.
Take time to Love and Be loved, it is God's greatest gift.
Take time to Laugh, it is the music of the soul.
Take time to be Friendly, it is the road to happiness.
Take time to Dream, it is what the future is made of.
Take time to Pray, it is the greatest power on earth.

Life tells you with open arms that " Walk from the gates of "YOU", Stride towards the doors of "ME", Knock not, Just enter, Share your secrets, See dreams, Open your heart for me and I will be your friend forever. "

And you will then experience what I have and you will tell life
" Friend with you by my side, everything seems to be just perfectly right. "

Keep Loving Life and it will Never stop loving you and Keep smiling :-)
Hey I saw you smiling all along the conversation above, just keep it on.
Thank you to God and the wonderful people who are or have been a part of my life, because each one of them gives me many reasons to smile.
I am signing out for the day, attached a snap of Adesh and Srijan smiling together and I love to see all of them smiling :)))))
Have a nice day :-)

A Divine Experience to share, I hope it makes you smile :)

Hello friends, and Rama di, thanks for inspiring me to write and sending me a message that you miss reading my post, since I haven't written for long. Thanks a lot di, feels good to be appreciated.

Well the only reason why I never wrote for long is I always prefer to write when I am happy and positive so that I can spread the same, but when I am low or negative, I prefer being quiet, because I believe in spreading smiles always. I am Thankful to God, because today I have a reason to write and be happy about.

There is a Gurudwara at Ahmedabad, the holy place of the Sikh religion, when we were here in 2009 - 2010 with family and Adesh was in a job here, if we used to pass by this highway, I always used to express my desire to visit this place once with family, but, I don't know why it never happened, usually we people run to and Ice cream parlor if we wish to eat one, we grab fast something we have long asked for, if we happen to come across, but when it comes to visiting a temple or a Holy place, we have a lazy attitude, or we just postpone it usually.

Yesterday was a unusually hot day of this summer season and Srijan told me why not we just move on the streets of Ahmedabad on his Activa just to breathe fresh air and get out of the drowsy feeling of being in one room all day long, so we moved out, had dinner, went to a friends place, had kulfi, then went to a good cafe, and had fresh Juice n cold coffee, also I proposed Rama di for a movie but as she was busy we thought we will go some other day, so this we usually do when we are bored, yesterday when we again passed this Gurudwara, I again told Srijan, that I wanted to visit this place for long and he stopped the bike and we went inside, it was some kind of festival there of the Sikhs and some saint had visited the place and a whole lot of people behind this Great person, touching his feet and seeking blessings, fortunately we entered while he was leaving and we happened to see him at a one hand distance and after which we entered the Gurudwara and though unaware of the way of worship at that place, we knew one common thing which is done at every holy place. We bowed our heads and joined our hands in prayer and Wished good for all the lovely people in my life seeking blessings for myself and my family members.

It was a divine experience, God or No God is a topic debated thousand times, and again the importance of one religion over the other also has been debated since centuries, today I just wanted to express my feelings on this particular aspect. I belong to family where religion is given a lot of importance right from the time of my Grand parents, then my parents and so on it continues. Is the supreme power Lord Rama, my In laws worship, Lord Krishna, my mother worships, Lord Shiva, my Grand father worshiped, or Lord Ganesha whom all the Hindu's believe should be worshiped and kept in the first place. I have visited Churches all my childhood from School, I studied in a convent School, read the Holy Bible, visited temples with my parents and read the Bhagwata Geeta as well, I know a bit of the preachings of the Jainism as we have friends and my bhabhi belonged to a Jain family, I have a lot of friends of all religions and all have different traditions and beliefs, it can never end this way.

But,What I felt yesterday that these holy places,Churches,Temples, Masjids and Gurudwaras all give us a divine feeling because to this place every human comes with a hope, a prayer, a positive approach, an honest mindset, we don't pretend there, we our ourselves, all the people who come there come to ask forgiveness for the wrong they have done, for praying for the happiness of each other, of our loved ones, there none of the person visiting the place does any kind of manipulaton, that whole atmosphere is Honest, filled with gratitude, filled with compassion, filled with Love, filled with Hope and even in the worst of circumstances there's HOPE and strength which every individual gets merely by visiting that place, and the positivity which radiates from each other. God is everywhere, inside us, outside us and in every living being on earth, we worship the Cow, the trees, because we trust, that it lives and it gives us Energy and Strength.

My whole idea of writing this post is that this atmosphere can be created everywhere, at home, at our work place and in our whole world, if we live with the same honesty, good feelings for others, positive approach in all situations, repentance for our wrong deeds, Forgiveness for the others who you feel have done wrong to you and many many more things which only Spread Love, Smiles, Optimism, Strength and Hope. We can have it in ourself and also see it in the others, the good and the God, and if we begin to try now, from today onwards, I feel that if not the whole world but Our World can be the most beautiful place to live in.

Sounds too dramatic or like preachings, does it ????
It may, I don't mind, I always follow my heart and speak what comes to my mind, and the best part is I feel good about it, I love every living being around me and I respect them just the way they are, be it any religion, be it any culture, be it any person carrying a different view point from mine, I love to learn more and share more, We all are blessed and the blessings we receive is in the form of the family we are born in, the place we are brought up in and the people we meet along the journey of life and the belief that we are different yet so common, we are all imperfect yet can make our lives worth living in every aspect, its just that we need to try and keep trying.

Ending with a Quote I read long back " God must have loved the common people, thats why he made so many of them "
I feel blessed to be a common man, because I trust God loves me and he loves you too, so
"Keep Smiling and keep spreading smiles. It is God's greatest gift to mankind and all of us can afford to own a smile, gift a smile and donate one too." This is my own Quote of life.

I am attaching the photo of the smiles which mean everything to me and also the reason why I can smile always, God bless them and God bless all of us.

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I love my India

Good Morning India and my other friends who are outside the country :-)

Today I began writing with a beautiful feeling and I am sure you will feel it in every word written below :-)

Yesterday afternoon I boarded my train to Ahmedabad from Raipur after being at home for a week with all there, Adesh, Avani and Mummy (my mother in law) , it was her 66th Birthday yesterday and we celebrated it together, first at midnight 12 at Bhaisahab’s place (my bro in law) with Jiji, Srishti and Abhinav, with a simple home made sugar free cake made by Jiji and a lots of fun coz all 4 kids were relieved after exams being over and all celebrating together dancing and screaming in different ways wishing their grandmom whom they call 'Maa' a very Happy Birthday, and after midnight again we all met at lunch at Jiji’s place again and the celebration continued, with photographs and smiles on all faces in the family. She gave each of us a dairy milk. :-)

We left home after seeing India losing the toss and gradually in train came to know that Sachin and Sehwag both out…..and the scores kept coming from many sources in the train and also Adesh kept updating me with the scores and in the end as we were close to the historic victory, winning the World Cup over Srilanka the excitement and happiness kept increasing.

Yesterday apart from this it was also my younger bro’s Birthday, who lives at Singapore with his family and my maa is there too. Back home in Chennai today its my bhabhi’s birthday too,my elder bro's wife and my papa is there, so again celebration at my maa’s place too yesterday and today.

Amidst all this I was wondering when I boarded the train that I am going to miss all the fun at my different homes going on and how well they would all celebrate the end of the day when INDIA WON THE WORLD CUP after almost 28 years, I am sure all the people watching the match and the award ceremony might have been at something called the height of Enthusiasm, Joy and Pride. But here comes the reason why I began to write my blog post coz we celebrated it in the train with many people here.

I love train Journeys and I love my India because every place can be comfortable here and every traveller here connects with each other. Mostly the fellow travellers are women going to their mother’s home for enjoying the summer vacation with their kids and men and women of different ages of different origin, different states, different communities, versatile languages yet one common language, our very own Hindi and the fun hearing the scores via sms or internet sites or calls on cell phone and everyone announcing it to each other as the update arrives and even people who may not be so very interested in Cricket feeling that Excitement.

How beautiful is the feeling of celebrating India’s Victory in a train journey, its like being not at home but "IN INDIA". The tea vendors, the station crowd, either the ones who came to drop, or who came to receive in between the match and the curiosity on every face and people screaming at every wicket of Srilanka and every good shot of India and getting disappointed at the losses, I could have never expected a better way of celebrating this moment, at one side Adesh on the phone narrating to me the tears of happiness on the faces of each player, me shouting happily to mummy ki ye hui na Happy Happy Birthday and she agreeing and so on and on.

The summary is that this happens ONLY IN INDIA, its like family the whole nation and specially when its Cricket it’s a game of all the Indians, we all go crazy and emotional about the game and I had the privilege of watching the world cup victory on every face present inside and outside the train at Nagpur station.

I salute the Indian team members, their efforts and their commitment to win, all put together made us all proud last night and my bro. n mummy all out there feel that is was their best birthday ever and me, well I feel that seeing my loved ones happy, seeing so many lovely unknown yet so known faces of men, women and little children, smile can make any day and every day beautiful.

Concluding the post here with only few sentences, I love train journeys, I love my home at my papa’s side Chennai and Singapore and my home at Raipur, I love my India, proud to be born here in this nation of love, over flowing emotions, affection and Unity in Diversity.

Keep Smiling, I am sure I cant stop my smile thinking about yesterday 2nd April 2011 a beautiful day, a lovely journey and a complete feeling while sharing it in words with all my dear friends. Love you all :-)

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The Hole

Long time I never took out time to write, not that I never had anything to share but at times you just feel good to be quiet. Today some thoughts were rolling on my mind and i felt I should share them, I watched a movie with my kids last night "The Hole" and this movie was like there's a hole dark and hidden into which if one looks he gets scared to death by his own fears.

In a movie we see the various aspects but in general we do not notice little things which are really important and we all need to learn to fight our fears. When we are scared of something, I am sure all of us have some fear or the other in life, it could be a thought, a person, an animal, could be pursuit of success, could be fear to fail,,,,,,, endless emotions which are connected to our fear within and you bet on it, if we don't actually face the fear it chases us all our life and even leads to death at times.

According to me the best way to remove it is to face it, Imagine that the worst thing you dread has happened and then what next ? What would you do when something you always were scared of happens, I am sure you would think of some solution to come out of it or withstand it, you may pray, you may feed positive thoughts, you may seek other alternatives for the worst situation and when you actually think this way, you find that its not that bad, you knew how to come out of it, you have ideas where in you can manage the situation even at its worst, then why be afraid. We are only afraid of something until we actually face it.

For example during exams we all fear about the percentage, the competition, the humiliation if not performed well, but we tend to forget that while worrying about all these things we are actually hindering our efforts and performance deteriorates, when you do some task without any fear inside and with confidence the outcome is always better, and could be the best if we do the tasks happily, sincerely and confidently.

Another fear which we all undergo at sometime or the other in life is a loss of a relationship, Adesh lost his father when he was only 15,he would not have imagined in his wildest dreams that something like this might happen to them but it did, and though it seemed impossible but they made their way through, that does not mean that you start imagining that something like this would happen to you but, what I mean to say is there is no situation in life which cannot be dealt with, could be loss of a job, failure in interviews.......etc...etc. I think we can only survive when we begin any task with a "Hope for the best and be prepared for the worst" attitude.

It's easier said than done but if when the worst happens and we manage it then why be scared and make others scared as well. If you have any kind of threat on your mind then, I feel that instead of showing panic, getting depressed and creating a very tough environment for yourself and either the family or organization better look for a solution out imagining the worst which can happen and also plan your tasks as per your goal, and give your best shot without bothering much about the results or the consequences. Believe in Yourself and also believe in the others around you, they say treat the others as you want to be treated by them.

Fight your fears, be confident, facing the fear takes you a step ahead towards winning and reaching your goal. Life gives you two options to everything either participate or run away, running away will lead you nowhere, where as participating may not give the desired result always but for sure you will have the satisfaction of having done whatever best you could possibly do and with time, patience, hard work and perseverance someday you will reach where you want to be. NEVER GIVE UP.

Signing out for the day with my usual note, keep smiling, smiles can take you miles. Love what you do and do what you love :-)

Spread your wings and fly, you would seem beautiful to the world and the world would seem beautiful to you.
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I dont know what to say............

Good Evening :-)

Well I truly don't know what to say, sometimes we are just blank, aren't we, its happiness, its surprises, its fear, its worry, its love, its loneliness....... n number of emotions put together and the mind goes blank, but I guess on such moments just write it out, or speak to yourself or speak to a pet, speak to plants, I got these ideas from many different people I met at a workshop I participated in here at Ahmedabad Management Association.

It was fun to interact with different people, knowing new things, learning from the people around us and most of all,I felt there is so much more to do in life, usually we all come to a point and start feeling that we have done enough but here i learned that learning never ends till your last breath.

One workshop was about developing Emotional Intelligence(EI) and I guess it is much more important that trying to improve our IQ, because there we did a few tests and exercises where in you come to know where you stand in the level of EI and how to improve it with time and experience.
The other workshop I participated in was about using your creativity which every person has in him/ her some are very creative and some less creative but none are not creative.

On the whole I should say one needs to do those things which bring you closer to yourself and improve yourself too apart from the knowledge gaining it is fun to know many many new concepts and things which we never knew before.

" Whatever made you successful in the past won't make you in the future - quote by CEO HP."

Change is necessary they say and if we keep doing what we have been doing always, we will get only what we have been getting always, we cannot expect to get anything better, so we need to change with time, change as per the generation and also upgrade our knowledge and skills more than the previous day. When we do that we will see a new dimension of success. Success is not only in Profession, its also in personal life, we need to change our way of living, our way of thinking, our way of communicating and a lot more, but that does not mean we need to become like someone else.

Be yourself and improve yourself in a way that you benefit, your family benefits and if in a profession then the Organization benefits and last but not the least the Society or the community benefits. Do not live in the past, leave the past and always concentrate on the present and how to make that better.

Sharing a simple example given there, that there's a man who says that its a record in my life till date I have never ever met with an accident. When told that then surely you must be a very careful and good driver the man answers that I don't know how to drive, and the other person says Good for sure your record will remain intact till the end. A person who does nothing makes no mistakes and trust me I believe in making mistakes and learning from them rather than not doing anything in life.

Anyway enough of the learning and sharing lessons part. What about doing something else, bandana's blog has to have her touch, otherwise it would be incomplete. tomorrow try one thing when you wake up from sleep, wake up with a smile and do something unusual like......... put on music and before you begin your daily routine share a small dance with your spouse before he leaves for office or kids before they leave for the exams to School. Impossible is it,,,, try just 1 melodious song and 1 twist and turn just for 5 mins, if u do not have enough time and check it out your spouse, your kid and you will have the best of day ;-).

Life is beautiful, we just need to keep smiling. You are never completely dressed until you wear a smile, said by Mahatma Gandhiji. I guess we need to obey ;-).

Keep Smiling and I am signing off for the day and I am surely gonna share a dance tomorrow with my son, its his maths exam tomorrow and Avani is dancing all day these days, hahaha, her exams are over and she loves to sing and dance, in fact even now me n my son, we are hearing FM and he is doing his maths problems and singing along and its so much fun...........Srijan sings beautifully and I take all the credit its genetic, well his dad sings better than me ;-). Sir I have given the credit to you, you be happy :-)

I have attached a snap of Srijan of sometime back when he inserted this quote on the snap and I understood it now :-)

Good Night India and Good day to the US friends.

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My beautiful self is made up of you all

Today is Women's day and I am proud to be a woman. I want to say a few words for some of the lovely women I know and I am inspired by, it may be a long long post because the names are endless and the feelings infinite and its important for me to show my gratitude at least to a few special ones who made me what I am.

It can never begin without mentioning my mother's name, She is Pushpa Mohta, She is like the divine grace of God, All the faith and strength in me is just a fraction of what she has in her. She is the best cook, the best teacher, the best critic too. I love her a lot, though I fight the most with her ever since she has given birth to me but she forgives me every time and loves me unconditionally. I love you maa. Words can never describe what she exactly is. Never seen a lady so strong and so dedicated towards her religion, she can make anyone feel the presence of God in and around oneself. I could never match her expectations whether in hard work, cooking, prayers she does, everything in her, is far beyond my reach. I may have to take many more births to become like her.

My best friend for life Prema Aunty, She is an epitome of love and beauty, only studied till 5th Standard in kannada medium but you see her, you talk to her, cannot make out that she is anyway less than me or you the educated world. The best thing in her, she continuously learns to improve her self in every way, ever willing to share, give and receive whatever she knows. What I loved most in her, She would wake up at 5am exercise till 5.30am and at 6am you would see her bathed and fresh, dressed beautifully in a starched cotton saree and smiling then and all day long. God gave her the worst difficulty last year, she lost her 27 year old handsome Son in an accident but speak to her now, she will teach you, how to over come the grief. She sings songs hindi and English though she may never understand them and she loves Lata Mangeshkar and hears all the beautiful songs of today and the old days. She is my mothers age, but you meet her, she can give a complex to many beautiful young ladies, its her inner beauty and selfless love she has in her for every soul on earth which keeps her glowing.

My mother in law very strict, very particular about the cleanliness at home, the cooking part, the budget maintenance, the respect for elders, the handicrafts she made. She always wanted me to be like her, though again its difficult to stand up to her expectations but I learned a lot from her in life just because she was strict. Her best qualities is that she is a fighter, she lost her husband when she was so young and her 2 sons 15 and 17yr old and no support from anyone whosoever in the family but she never gave up. A very dedicated wife till her husband lived and an equally dedicated mother till date. I fight with her too, but not like I do with my mother and she does not forgive me too like my mother does but trust me she loves me though she may have complaints from me because I am not the kind of person she wants me to be, but I too always loved her and I still love her a lot for the person she is, the courageous woman who never took her physical handicap as an obstacle, she could work better than all of us. Again not so educated but always willing to learn and capable of handling all the home and outside jobs including banks, managing a factory When papaji lived, and the mother of 2 proud sons as they love her more than anything in this world. She reads books of knowledge and she always has some or the other hand work on, like embroidery, paint, sweaters, knitting laces and loves to sit with like minded people who share common interests.

Suman didi my sis in law, she was a class mate of my hubby since 2nd std. No blood relation but I am sure he could not have asked for a better sister. She taught me to love my mother in law the way she loves her, from the eyes of a daughter. I owe her to have given me a different attitude of loving your husband and in laws more than your own family where you grew up. She is a well educated lady, a teacher in real life and very very dedicated towards her duties and her work. Beyond Compare, I can again never be like her.

Can I ever complete this post, No I don't think so, because its highly impossible to mention all the different names who have helped me to see a new perspective of Life, work, relationships and things around me. If I go on writing about each person it will fill pages but yes I do want to express my gratitude to the following:

My Grand mothers, all my aunts mothers and father side, my co sister cum cousin, the greatest support of my married life Jiji, She is another very dedicated woman. My 2 Bhabhi's Anju and Teju, My female friends including wives of my male friends and Adesh's friends across the Globe, my nieces, my daughters Vandana, Srishti and Avani, All My subject teachers in School and College, my colleagues at work, my clients and the women who inspired me and encouraged me always. I'd like to mention a few names Garima, Vibhuti, Prabha, Rama di, Nupur, Nisha, Varsha, Manjusha mam, Dr. Heena Rach and the list goes on and on.

If I would not have mentioned any name or relationship whatsoever which is important to me, sI am sure those women I know and love, know that I love them and respect them for whatever they are and what they mean to me.

I salute all the above and whoever is reading this post. I truly, truly believe that my beautiful self is made up of you all.

Thank you God and Thank you all. I am proud to be ME and I am proud to know you.

Every Woman on earth whom God has sent to this world makes a difference to her family, her work and her own world.

A daughter, a sister, a wife, a friend, a lover, a sister in law, a mother, a mother in law, an aunt, a grand mother, be it any role, she fits in perfectly and adapts to situations perfectly.
As Strong as a mountain at times, as weak as a creeper, as delicate as the petal of a flower and sometimes so hard that you would wonder to see the transformations in her........so imperfect at times yet so complete.

I love you.

I have attached the snap of my spiritual mother, I worship her since childhood, my Yamuna maa.

Bless me :-)

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