In a movie we see the various aspects but in general we do not notice little things which are really important and we all need to learn to fight our fears. When we are scared of something, I am sure all of us have some fear or the other in life, it could be a thought, a person, an animal, could be pursuit of success, could be fear to fail,,,,,,, endless emotions which are connected to our fear within and you bet on it, if we don't actually face the fear it chases us all our life and even leads to death at times.
According to me the best way to remove it is to face it, Imagine that the worst thing you dread has happened and then what next ? What would you do when something you always were scared of happens, I am sure you would think of some solution to come out of it or withstand it, you may pray, you may feed positive thoughts, you may seek other alternatives for the worst situation and when you actually think this way, you find that its not that bad, you knew how to come out of it, you have ideas where in you can manage the situation even at its worst, then why be afraid. We are only afraid of something until we actually face it.
For example during exams we all fear about the percentage, the competition, the humiliation if not performed well, but we tend to forget that while worrying about all these things we are actually hindering our efforts and performance deteriorates, when you do some task without any fear inside and with confidence the outcome is always better, and could be the best if we do the tasks happily, sincerely and confidently.
Another fear which we all undergo at sometime or the other in life is a loss of a relationship, Adesh lost his father when he was only 15,he would not have imagined in his wildest dreams that something like this might happen to them but it did, and though it seemed impossible but they made their way through, that does not mean that you start imagining that something like this would happen to you but, what I mean to say is there is no situation in life which cannot be dealt with, could be loss of a job, failure in interviews.......etc...etc. I think we can only survive when we begin any task with a "Hope for the best and be prepared for the worst" attitude.
It's easier said than done but if when the worst happens and we manage it then why be scared and make others scared as well. If you have any kind of threat on your mind then, I feel that instead of showing panic, getting depressed and creating a very tough environment for yourself and either the family or organization better look for a solution out imagining the worst which can happen and also plan your tasks as per your goal, and give your best shot without bothering much about the results or the consequences. Believe in Yourself and also believe in the others around you, they say treat the others as you want to be treated by them.
Fight your fears, be confident, facing the fear takes you a step ahead towards winning and reaching your goal. Life gives you two options to everything either participate or run away, running away will lead you nowhere, where as participating may not give the desired result always but for sure you will have the satisfaction of having done whatever best you could possibly do and with time, patience, hard work and perseverance someday you will reach where you want to be. NEVER GIVE UP.
Signing out for the day with my usual note, keep smiling, smiles can take you miles. Love what you do and do what you love :-)
Spread your wings and fly, you would seem beautiful to the world and the world would seem beautiful to you.
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