This isn't about being strong, its about being fragile :)

A very good morning to my readers and the people who love to receive my morning messages everyday, I begin writing this post with Gratitude to all of you.

This morning a whole lot of information came intuitively to me and as usual I wished to share it with all, but it wasn't short enough to write in one sms, so here you go.......

Yesterday we were talking me and my mentor Dr. Neeta Kapadia (to know more about her and her fabulous work to mankind visit www.soultemplenet.org and www.isolve.guru) about a woman I adore in my life, who is suffering from Ovarian Cancer. As a healer and lover of her, I came to meet her and facilitate change within her and allow her speedy recovery to show up. She is getting healed faster, God's grace.

So in discussion I realized that the increasing rate of Cancer in woman is alarming and sad too. Am not sharing here the metaphysics of diseases as that is something, we all should learn out of our own interest to ensure good health through a healthy mind and body. Whenever I am in question I receive information and answers from the Universe. Today what I received was that - A woman - metaphorically her heart is like an egg.

How is an egg in its original form?

Can be broken easily, can be used in various forms.An Egg in every form is useful, no matter what, whether you boil it or cook it.(me being a plant products eater, cannot mention the various forms an egg is useful as, though for sure I know it is useful always). It has protein which is one of the vital elements required for human race to survive.

Like an Egg Fragile on the outside and Fluid on the inside is how a woman is and in that form when nurtured and cared for it has the capacity to create new life, and it beautifully solidifies the fluid in her into a new being, gives birth to a new self, an extension of itself. When boiled under pressure it is capable of being cut into halves, splits, fragments. When cooked, it converts into a thing to be served to eat by all, but in its original form it is a very beautiful example of how a creator is.

In order to prove ourselves strong, be independent, or in the - not willing to receive mode, we woman lose the essence of our being, the fragility and the fluidity. Some cases we also turn stone cold. Whatever the reasons may be, external or internal, the loss is ours.

How does one maintain that essence then?

By being willing to nurture ourselves, to be open to receive in whatever way the Universe wishes to gift us love, care, affection, nurturing, nourishing without any terms and conditions. Now does that mean we take it from anyone, NO - We choose. We choose by our inner knowing.... and without self doubt.

Before anything else by recognizing - Say " I recognize that....."
I am fragile, I am fluid, I am flexible, I am useful, I am vulnerable, I love to receive love, I love to be pampered, I love to be taken care of, I enjoy touch, I enjoy being a child, I am romantic, I am soft, I create, I am a creator, I am beautiful, I am one with myself and I am okay to be me, I am powerful, I break my mold to form new life, I nourish and nurture even when used but today I MAKE A CHOICE

A CHOICE TO OKAY TO BE ME.

A Mythological story says, Ahilya a lady turned into a stone by the wrath of curse and when Lord Rama with his purest intention and love in his soul, touched the stone, even after years, the stone turned back into the beautiful woman she used to be and was liberated. I know what it means to be loved by the purest intention and what soulful love is, I am grateful to have people in my life who have loved me unconditionally, my father, my brothers, my husband, my lover, my son, my friends............... BUT this was only and only possible when I worked on the inner being which was converted stone cold and when I allowed myself to be fragile, be fluid, be vulnerable, flow and connect to the essence of me within me. I respect the male in me, I love the masculine side of me to, I am one with it. I have been through and done all the things that most of us do in ignorance, now I choose, by awareness and not by ignorance.


I am not writing this blog for men and parents to understand and save the girl child, not kill it, or not disrespect it. I am sharing this for us woman to know ourselves and be open to receive and allow ourselves to let go of the need to be anything different than who we are within. Not by external pressure, not by force and not by the need to prove that we exist and we matter are we supposed to give in, and give up the essence of our feminine self. If circumstances force you, choose to change them, you have the power to create what you wish for in your life and YOU ARE THE MOST AWESOME CREATOR OF THIS WORLD.

Hey you BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!!!!! BE PROUD TO BE YOU, FRAGILE OUTSIDE AND FLUID WITHIN. NURTURE YOURSELF, BE USEFUL NOT USED, DO NOT WAIT TO BE SHAPED UP THROUGH SOMEONE OR FOR SOMEONE, DO IT FOR YOURSELF.

I do not know how much sense it makes to you when you read this, however this is something which came to me, and I shared it as I usually do. For the Men, my message is that -
Dude!!!! You too have a feminine side in you, acknowledge that, get in touch with that and adore the woman in and outside you. Trust me, your masculine side would feel proud of you when you love the feminine in you and outside you with soulful love and purest of intention. You would see your mother, your daughter, your wife, your lover, your sister, your female friends respecting you for who you are and in turn you will get to see what the women in your life are capable of creating by being in allowance.

I read this short prayer this morning which is applicable for all, men and women.

"Oh Great Spirit, Remove from Me the Things that Block My Usefulness to You. Remove from My Day All Thinking that is Out of Harmony with Your Ways. Grant Me Your Peace and Allow Me to Function as a Hollow Bone."

~ Frank Fools Crow, Ceremonial Chief - Western Teton Sioux.

I would say " My creator, Remove from me all thinking that is out of harmony with the role I have chosen to play and allow me to be me."

signing out for the day
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