Monday, March 25, 2013

Are YOU doing it ????



Sometimes the mind is blank and sometimes cluttered with thoughts, today is strange mix of both...... felt like sharing it by my best way of expression, my blog............

How to deal with your mind ???? Lots of ways, different therapies, one of which I learned, it helped me a lot, but does anything help unless you practice it regularly, It does not, no matter what steps you take for self improvement but if you stop working on it, you stop growing or improving in that direction.

A person who is doing something, like diet control, exercise, Yoga, etc... to reduce weight, as soon he or she stops and again the mind and body responds to the latest habits and not the ones done previously.

If you are learning music, or following any hobbies and you stop learning, and most of all stop practicing and you will see the difference in a few years in you, your singing quality would deteriorate.

What is most important, what we are learning today, what we learned yesterday, what we are going to learn tomorrow, or What we are doing today, what we did yesterday, what we will do tomorrow.

We all, our education system, our parents, teachers, all of us focus on learning, learning and continuously learning.......

When are we going to change this and start doing things and learn to do things, not simply learn, taking steps ahead, one by one exactly in the direction of your goals or purpose of life.

Dream, we tell children, work for your dreams and we stop them by the burden of unnecessary knowledge which does not help them to fulfill dreams but it stops them from believing in their dreams or sometimes even believing that they are able enough to fulfill their ambitions and dreams, by labeling them or tagging them with the so called " Good boy/ girl" or " bad boy/girl"

And this tagging is done on the basis of the marks, of the habits they possess by following the so called " who know everything" Elders & Teachers, but people forget that people change, everyday, every moment, we all do and how can we tag anyone or label anyone positive or negative on the basis of what they are doing today.

It is fine to guide, on the basis of today, what not to do, or what to do for future but labeling them is like, we are tying them with a heavy chain, inside the world's zoo in different cages, and their mind starts believing that they are the label which is outside their cage, and not what they are inside.

This blog might get a bit too long but then, this is just a beginning, to ask my readers to believe in themselves and not the labels, and not just learn but start doing what is positive and what will take them closer or one step ahead to their goals and avoid those things which pull them one step back from their goals of life.

Start working on YOURSELF, YOUR DREAMS, YOUR AMBITIONS, YOUR PURPOSE, YOUR LIFE, YOU............ because it is your life, and everything else associated to your Individuality, every choice you are making today is making you what you are today, and every choice you make in future will make you what you will be tomorrow, but "you cannot build a reputation on what you are going to do"........ so start doing it NOW.

Just do it..........

signing off for the day
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    1. @ Amit Singh, I appreciate your comment and its true, expectation of family members, but then i do not believe in sacrificing because at the end it only leads to misery, does not make anyone happy. A person who is himself not happy or dissatisfied by what one is doing, he or she cannot perform as per the potential of the individual, rather if you pursue your dreams and then make a mark in it, then your family members also will feel proud of you....... well in any case I do not encourage you to disrespect their views or opinions.

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    2. mam
      just true to b honest , everyone has some dream nd d family members too have some expectations,
      confusion arises der nd one has to sacrifice his dreams over his responsibility..
      secondly
      to b practical
      procrastination nd d environment affect.
      procrastination will took u a step bckward nd d environment will let u down ,
      mam m request u to write a article on des two procrastination nd d environment..
      overall d post was awesome..

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