Silence is Golden at times ;-)

Hi folks, I have no relation with silence generally, I am usually the ever talkative and I can go on and on and on for hours together with friends while I get a chance to, and many a people who know me tell me Bandana Grow up :))))))))

Well growing up and being mature is very important, I know, but keeping the child alive in you is equally important, is what I feel, many people differ in opinion, but how does that make a difference to me, if it would have, then people would stop telling me to grow up......lol....

How much fun it is when you enjoy the little moments, like today me, my son and my daughter we all went out for dinner, ate well, then came back home and after an hour again went for a juice almost close to mid night, searching for open shops and available options, empty roads, 3 of us on a two wheeler and no if's and but's. I love to spend such moments with children and thankfully I get opportunities too, my children also enjoy the ride, though they are grown up and more mature than me sometimes............

Today I was after a very stressful mind for last few days, due to various reasons, simply sitting and enjoying the light moments, then added a few songs to my playlist which I am very fond of and just hearing songs and spending time with myself here, feels so good to be silent and at peace with myself.

My friend told me and we often hear, that change what you cannot accept and accept what you cannot change, its not easy I know, but sometimes we forget to differentiate between Self respect and Ego. Today I read somewhere some nice lines written by a person who believes in spreading happiness that
Happiness blooms in the presence of self respect and the absence of Ego :-)
Love yourself and Love everyone around you :-)
Love everyone in the whole world :-)
Know that your own life is of Infinite importance, as is every other life :-)

I often refer to his writings and I feel good to read them because I relate to them and we all love to read and write and also talk about the things we love to do or we dream to do. I am loving this moment where I am not doing anything thinking that what would be the reaction of people, or do they think I am good, do they think I am bad, do they think I am mad......lol....
well most of the times we are in stress because we think more about what others are thinking, if someone does not like me can I change their thoughts, No I cannot, no matter how hard I try and if someone loves me, again I cannot change that too so I just figured out that It actually makes no difference and I should not get affected by what others think about me.

This is the first rule to be at peace with yourself and the second do not judge others, we can never exchange lives with anyone, then do we have the right to judge anyone. Its good to appreciate, do that as and when you can but its very inhuman to discourage and criticize others.

I am blessed to have friends and family who stand by me without judging me for anything whatsoever I say or do and I trust I am also the same way with them and that is why those relations are all alive and do not fade away or die despite the distances in miles and also differences in thoughts. The only true religion which is understood by all human beings on earth is unconditional love :-)

How much is the comfort when someone tells you " I love you just the way you are " and when you say the same to someone.

The grown ups need to learn that trait from little children and I love to accept the fact that I learn a lot from them, attaching a cute snap of a little lovely baby of a friend and these innocent smiles teach us a lot.

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Signing out with a wish that God bless all of us with the power of loving unconditionally and Keep Smiling :-)